Are they meant 2 b our soulmate??

What do u really look into a guy?

**from my own experience...kedengaran sperti sgt expert...pdehal, lgsung tidaks.**

1. Religious (he’s the one who might guide you, teach u, be with you for the whole life. Kalo lambat solat, suami marah, rase cam best. Seriously. He’s playing his part.)

2. Loyalty (nobody wants her partner to have a lusty cheeky glance on other gurls. But be realistic. He’s just a man. Men will always be men. He complained itu ini, itu ini, that lady prasan cun la, skirt x cukup kain la, ohho, cuci mate eh? Trust me, if u find a devoted lover, he’s just being naughty for a while, & he’ll have his eyes just on us. )

3. Thoughtful (we wish our loved ones gonna ask how’s our bad hair day, whether we r healthy enuff or not, etc. We girls love to nag and talk about stupid things for no specific reason, but that’s just the way we are. We don’t mean it if we sound mad with pout on our lips. We have the tendency to babble ‘bout everything even the not so unexpected matter. If he listen to all the ‘snippet’ which ‘unpurposely’ came out from our mouth, then, he just being thoughtful enuff. That’s a sacrifice…)

4. Gentle (do u want a guy who keep shouting at u with harsh voice? Oh pliss!!)

5. Good looking (the beauty lies in the eyes of beholder. If someone tell u that ur bf/fiancé/hubby is goatee, sloppy, fat, and ugly, bad taste, & has unpleasant body odor. Then be it.! Who cares nway.…we r the one who’s going to treasure our life with him, not em. We know pretty well to handle the not-so-right things)

6. Security and safety (this is pretty hard for us who’s still in our young age. We strive hard to get money, we share everything with him and nothing to be kept as a secret. But, be wise, personal investment is crucial in these days….who knows what might happen in future! Should he get a new ‘branch’, we got our so-happy-home already. Contingency plan kah itu..)

7. Respect our buddies (we need a partner who knows how to appreciate our besties. Who is considerate enuff to sacrifice his time to attend our besties’ weddings or a lil-get-together. In return, we might accompany him to his buddies’ occasion. Fishing sounds boring, but we know we should pretend that we manage to get along with it pretty well. Eventually, we might share d very same passion .
8. Love our other half ;parents & siblings (when it comes to marriage, there’s zillion of trouble awaiting us. We might like or dislike our MIL,FIL,SIL,BIL, his cousins as well. U got the tool with u, so use it. Work it on. This is d most sensitive part. I guess, I just need 2 have a bit back-to-basic thought. Playing pick a pocket smartly.)

MIL- mother-in-law
FIL- father-in-law
SIL- sister-in-law
BIL- bother-in-law

There’s plenty more to write, but I guess that’s the full stop. If we keep searching and searching, we won’t find the full stop. Appreciate what we have. Look at the worst thing in him/her…then we’ll find a miracle. I just love my Eyu for no reason. I asked him why he chose me as his wife, then he kept silent. He always tell me that there’s no reason to love. If he loves me for the way I look (dah mcam tong drum kan?), then the heart might as well change. benarkah? Just let it be and savor the sweetest thing in our life. I love eyu.